The order of events matters, and it is public. She was on television as a child. Later, still very young, she sold a cosmetics line with her name on the tube. The feed is the shop window: a face, a color, a change from the last face. A thirteen-year-old scrolling it is not meeting a classmate. She is meeting a store that learned early what a girl's picture was worth.

You can think the makeup itself is harmless and still refuse the premise. If a daughter names her when she talks about how she wants to look, ask what she would be able to do if the account disappeared tomorrow. Stay long enough to hear the answer. It is usually a look, not a job.