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Film · Prime Video · 1993

The Nightmare Before Christmas

A man who loves his own holiday enough to stop counterfeiting someone else's.

Jack is a real craftsman of fright, and he is bored, and boredom makes him a thief of Christmas. The film loves his competence and refuses his theft. Sally sees the harm coming and is right. The children of the town are frightened by gifts that were built by a man who does not know the feast.

It is dark in the way a good October story is dark, not in the way a taunt is dark. Oogie Boogie is a villain of appetite. Jack goes home to the work he can actually do. That return is the moral. A house can watch it. Say that admiration is not permission to take over someone else's holy day.

The eight

  1. Industry

    8/10

    He is a master of his craft, and a bungler of the one he steals.

  2. Household

    5/10

    Sally's loyalty is a kind of household. The town is the other.

  3. Piety

    6/10

    Two feasts, both treated as real. Mixing them is the error.

  4. Courage

    7/10

    He admits the failure in public and goes to set it right.

  5. Republic

    6/10

    A town with a job. Christmas is someone else's town.

  6. Temperance

    7/10

    Boredom and vanity push him. He does not get to keep the result.

  7. Truth

    8/10

    He was wrong. The film says so with the children's faces.

  8. Stewardship

    8/10

    Give the feast back to the people it belongs to.

Live historicallyDo your own work. Do not steal a feast you do not know how to keep.

Film · Prime Video · 2003

Finding Nemo

Keep it. Love that will not let go must learn to let the child swim.

Marlin's grief is not a joke, and his overprotection is not a mystery. The film understands both. Dory's forgetfulness is played for laughs and then revealed as a form of faithfulness: she keeps the errand when she cannot keep the facts. Nemo is not cargo. The last act works because the boy has to do the dangerous thing himself while the father trusts him.

A family that has been scared can watch this and talk about the difference between care and a grip. The ocean is big. The promise is not that it is safe. The promise is that you go.

The eight

  1. Industry

    7/10

    The crossing is an exhausting job.

  2. Household

    9/10

    A father and a son, repaired.

  3. Piety

    4/10

    Wonder, little worship.

  4. Courage

    9/10

    Both of them do the frightening part.

  5. Republic

    5/10

    A reef, a tank, a company of the lost.

  6. Temperance

    6/10

    Fear is the vice he repents.

  7. Truth

    7/10

    He was wrong about the boy, and says so.

  8. Stewardship

    8/10

    It hands a parent the open water and the child.

Live historicallyGive a child one risk that belongs to them, and stay near without clutching.

Annie